I guess. I just kinda think of libraries and movies as places you go in order to keep your eyes on something other than your friends, and be quiet. =P If you meet, why not let loose? I'm betting most of these people haven't even had a fulfilling experience like that. A real going-out in style.
LoL, honestly I have no idea who goes to libraries to hang out.....or why really. In the long history of hanging out with friends, not once has one of them, or myself, ever said "Hey.....what the [tornado fang] are we doing here? Lets go to the LIBRARY!" But that's me.
Also, what I meant by different strokes for different folks was more directed towards the getting wasted, going paintballing, and then the mosh pit. LoL, you just described 3 activities I have zero interest in! But again, that's me!
However, I do agree that social activities are a necessity in one's life. I wouldn't be the happy person I am without the friends in my life. But I don't think people have to go out in style, but simply go out. Listen, we all love video games here, but sometimes you just need to leave the hut and go exploring. Plan a vacation with your friends somewhere, or hey try paintball like you said. Just try not to be a recluse.
Personally, my idea for a good time can range from going to the movies and staying in and D-D-D-Dueling in YuGiOh, or going to a baseball game or a movie of some kind, or just walking around my beautiful city. If friends invite me to a party or bar or to go clubbing, I'm there. Hell, I don't drink, ever. I actually hate the taste of alcohol, and yet I can promise you that I probably act more "fun-drunk" than people who drink because I already have little to no inhibition as it is.